About me

Hi, I’m Tanya

I’m 50, a mother of four, and my life hasn’t exactly followed a neat plan.

Midlife brings its own set of challenges — divorce, financial uncertainty, ageing parents, children growing up (or still needing you), and the unfamiliar territory of dating again. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed or stuck, especially when you’ve spent years holding everything together for everyone else.

Over the years, I’ve worked as a financial adviser, estate agent, English teacher and personal assistant. I’ve helped other people get their lives organised while quietly working out how to keep mine afloat.

And here’s what I’m learning: this phase of life isn’t something to endure — it’s something to reshape. With practical support, honest conversations, and a bit of humour, we can take back control and move forward on our own terms.

This space is here for you — with tools, advice, and encouragement to help you navigate midlife feeling grounded, clear-headed, and empowered.